When I initially tried to post this blog yesterday, the computer I was at started freezing. Too much goodness for one monitor. I didn't force it and figured there was a reason.
Initially, this was just going to be a post about relationships. The advice my mother gave me that it was time, when looking for a serious relationship, to stop trying to push a square peg into a round hole. I've done a lot of forcing in my past. Very rarely, if ever, have the guys I met been a 'perfect' fit. Past relationships tended to need some maneuvering, and shifting, shaving down, even breaking in order to go through. It shouldn't be like that.
Then my day took a turn for the worse...
And I found myself asking this same exact question in regards to family members with explosive personalities. Clashing forces, one square and one round. There I was in the middle trying to shove one into the other, to find a middle ground and sense of peace to the situation, only for the tide to turn against the peacemaker. Even when you have the best intentions, sometimes it's best to just let a square be a square, a circle be a circle, and move the fuck on...
